I have faded out. I still have just a handful of friends that are still involved, and we just don't talk about religion. They have no idea what I really think about it all. Usually don't see them too often, so it isn't like they are a huge part of my life. I have not been df'd, and I will not bow down to their crap and da myself. Why should I put a label on myself that they created? I know some feel the need to do so, but I don't. To each their own. I am not judging.
But, I have one friend and his family that I would love to see get out. I hang in there, hoping he will see the light one day. He is smart..... if only his computer would do some research for him.
Another friend of mine I communicate with is df'd. He greatly appreciates my friendship and loyalty regardless of what the WTS says. He still believes it to be the truth, though he has had some challenges with it. I am not in a position yet to tell him the truth about it. I have to feel him out, and it will happen eventually.
Most importantly, my under age child is still involved with my ex. As time goes by, he will become more mature and understand more about it.
These three I would do anything for them to see the light and run away from the organization.
Do you have any friends that you are hanging in there for? Will you ever be able to get them out?