by Vivamus 8 Replies latest jw friends
Do you know that feeling when you think you know someone, and then it turns out you really don't? And you can't really be pissed at that person, cuz its just your weird view of them has been proven to be incorrect. And they really don't understand why all of a sudden you are not so kind and nice to them anymore, cuz they haven't done anything different, it's just that you see them in a different light now, and can't really be nice and kind anymore.
Do you know that feeling?
It sucks.
can't really be nice and kind anymore.
yeah I know that feeling, it sucks too.
brummie
Hey Viva: It's weird that you should mention this, 'cause I just had an experience where I had exactly those feelings you described. And I agree. Those feelings suck.
I took a refugee from Iran in the house trusting him that he had the right motives. Later on over a few beers he starts to reveal his actual plans. They were not nice plans. This forced me to change my view on him. He was surprised to find out I could not be friendly towards him anymore, because he had not changed, but I did.
I was really disturbed. I tell you those feelings really suck and it causes you to distrust even more.
I just cannot understand why people have to be so that you can't hardly trust anyone anymore. Again,,,,,,,it sucks.
Andy
Hey Viv, What happened?
((((Viv))))
Greven
Did someone hurt you? Do I need to kick some arss? Let me at em..you mess with her you got problems with us all.
Aww, you're all so sweet. Yeah, I got hurt, but it'll be fine. I just have a " ^%$%#@* all to hell and back " day....
sending warm downunder thoughts to you.
(((((((((((((((((((((((VIV)))))))))))))))))))))))
Yup, it does suck! It's happened to me more times than I care to admit--because like you said, it's OUR perception that's wrong. Hope you have a better weekend, and if you need someone to vent to give me a holler at [email protected]. Sorry I haven't written myself!
Love,
Becky
Viv:
I'm sorry you had to go through that. (((VIV)))
