What would happen?
If I asked the elders if I could see or have any secret files they have on my wife?
Does the headship of the house or marriage trump their kangaroo court or do they think they secret police or something.
Either way, it pisses me off.
"confidentiality" is a varied and fluid term in witness world. What they do with confidential information depends completely on the individual body of elders and their own opinions!
Not authorized, sorry. As head you should already be informed unless you are not a witness and then you are ass out. Not much difference there honestly.