Thanks for the advise please keep it coming. My son is truly immature and I think he's doing this because of pressure wanting to fit in etc. I have shared with him some ttatt, shared with him information about the Bible and the God of the Bible to be nothing more then myth. He has even made comments that seamed to indicate that the info was sinking in to his head. But because he's so immature he doesn't get the ramifications of anything.
He thinks he can do things that are forbidden by the Borg and it's no big deal for example he wanted me to buy fireworks this past July. He truly just doesn't get it, and hes telling both sides things each side wants to hear. Also please stop telling me to man up. I'm trying to save my family here. I pretty sure the wife was told months ago by the elders to leave me because I was sharing ttatt with this son. They the congragation has ganged up on me to paint me the bad guy and give the family lots of love bombing. Lies have been told, presentations have been give on stage, possibly marking talk all to ruin me.
I sat my family down and spoke to them 2 years ago about why I was quitting but for most small kids it goes in and out their heads and who is going to have the better influence me or their mother. Its me against the whole Borg here. We all know what that is like, we all want to help each other out but in the end it's still just us individually against one of the biggest cults in the world.