So here is the context . Been away from the grip for over 12 months. V close family me ever still in but we have moved to different parts of the country so little interaction on a day to day basis but this family member I love a lot.
I am however gay and have a partner however my partner wants me to tell my family member and stop lying. I get that but know that if that happens the religion will force my family member to shun me . My family member is older and not well.
i hate the ultimatum being given. I have managed the situation over the last 6 years and believe that the family member actually knows but will not confront the truth because of the consequences.
What do I do? I sort of know but interested if anyone else on here has experienced similar