Hey - Cognac here... Dealing with Custody Case

by BriandMandi 7 Replies latest jw friends

  • BriandMandi
    BriandMandi

    Hi everyone! Had to create a new account cause I couldn’t login to my old one.

    Anyways, my ex- a male JW was trying to go for full physical custody of our kids. He had his wife call DCF but of course I won. He had no leg to stand on.

    So, we need to go back to court in February.

    My daughter is being taught that she’s going to die for celebrating Christmas unless it’s “to obey her mother only”. Also, that she doesn’t have to always listen to me. He teaches her that I am a liar, going to die, etc.

    I’m going for sole custody.

    She sees him every other weekend. Does anyone know of any recent articles, books, etc. that they are teaching kids about their parent leaving the truth or being an unbeliever?

    Thank you!

  • smiddy3
    smiddy3

    I`m sorry that I can`t answer your question Cognac hopefully someone with experience in this field can do so.

    I just hope things work out for you ,by the way how old is your daughter ? and kids ?

    I`m sorry that I can only give you moral support

    Take care.

  • carla
    carla

    Maybe these people can help?

    http://jwchildcustody.com/index.html

    have you also checked on jwfacts?

  • Doubting Bro
    Doubting Bro

    Cognac,

    Sorry you're having to deal with this. Always enjoyed your posts.

    I don't think there's anything new specifically that you could point to, but this behavior doesn't seem to be that uncommon for those in your situation.

    I'm pretty sure the courts wouldn't look favorably on them disparaging their mother like that.

  • Atlantis
    Atlantis

    This file includes the years from 1988 to 2019. There are 6 Child Custody and Child Abuse booklets in this file. Over 400 pages of legal information.


    The Red bookmarks are booklets the Watchtower Society published. The Blue bookmarks, are booklets EXJW's published to aid an attorney to know what to expect in court.
    https://we.tl/t-0eyWCBCBsE





    scan 40001
    Petra!
  • ZindagiNaMilegiDobaara
    ZindagiNaMilegiDobaara

    Perhaps these books might help

    Youth, Brainwashing and the Extremist Cults, Chapter 8 (Enroth, 1977).........................70
    "Kids 'n' Cults" (Swope, 1980)..................................................................................71
    Influence (Cialdini, 1984) ........................................................................................71

    Also

    For information on the legal implications of child custody when a cult is involve see Kandell, R. F. (1987/88). Litigating the Cult-Related Child Custody Case. Cultic Studies Journal. 4(2)/5(l),122-131.


    Greene, F (1989). Litigating Child Custody with Religious Cults. Cultic Studies Journal. 6(1), 69-75.

    Zing

  • SnakesInTheTower
    SnakesInTheTower

    Hey Cognac... long time no see. Sorry you are going through this mess.

    I wish I had info for you, I have been out 12 years now, my info as an elder is old. Others are probably offering great resources. One thing never changes...the GB engages in "Theocratic Warfare." ...aka Lying.

    Keep us posted, good to hear from you, even if the circumstances suck.

    Snakes ( Rich)

  • ohiocowboy
    ohiocowboy

    Hello Cognac! I am sorry that you are dealing with this. There are some Lawyers that may be able to help guide you who have dealt with this. JWChildcustody will send you a list of attorneys who have been involved in custody cases against JW's. I hope that someone can help you!

    http://www.jwchildcustody.com/

    https://jehovahswitnessesexperts.com/

    https://jehovahswitnessesexperts.com/refutation-of-preparing-for-child-custody-cases/

    https://duckduckgo.com/?q=child+custody+lawyer+jehovah's&atb=v139-6__&ia=web

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