A friend of mine lived in spain for half a year. He was a witness at that time and he and his wife had a colombian couple over, witnesses too, they lived in the Netherlands. And one night when he was alone, the colombian girl visited him and they slept together. Nobody knew untill they got back to the Netherlands. He started to smoke cigars (yes I'm bad company) and his wife found out, She talked to the elders, my friend admitted he smoked and he told his wife he had committed fornication as well. She left that same night, took al his money and his brand new car, and went to a friend (the colombian girl who already was divorced and lived on her own). He never wanted to tell her with whom he committed fornication, the funny thing is that she lives now with the woman who caused all the troubles. Anyway, he was disfellowshipped, and was all alone with no money left. Nobody talked to him,all his friends were witnesses. The only left friend was me and a friend of mine who now is in trouble for beating his wife up.So I keep going out with him and my wife asked me to stop beacuse he was df. I told her that he had nothing left, no wife, no organisation, no friends, no money, so the least I could do is not stop being his friend. She simply said: "He is a man he should be able to manage this".
Still a cold witness.