Dia:
So as not to hijack dantheman's thread, I start here.
I note a bit of sarcasm in your post about maternal instincts not being what they should if you are a JW. I cannot speak for others. In my own case, the love for my children cannot be put into words. They are my whole life. Brainwashing puts you in a state of mind were you cannot think for yourself, make decisions for yourself. I must admit, I was not a really "good" dub. When speaking with my adult children today, I told them that when push came to shove on the blood issue concerning them, I would have given them the "gift of life".
People have always sacrified much in the name of God and religion. And, I am afraid that this will never change as long as religion promotes itself above God.
I don't mean to be argumentative, but where maternal instincts are concerned, I get very defensive. Just ask my Ashi.
Mrs. Shakita