Boy! Did you ever get advice!!!! hehehehe!!! I hope you heed everyone's advice. It's all given in love. And we've been there. You might be thinking right now, that you can 'change' him. But, if he's a strong beliver, then you will never change him. I hope you've read all the replies and please take them to heart. What everyone has written is absolutely the truth. Hang in there! At 20, you have a long life ahead of you to find that 'right' man. Don't let your feelings get in the way of good judgement.