Please......

by Mimilly 6 Replies latest jw friends

  • Mimilly
    Mimilly

    ...... do not use details when describing any abuse that happened to you while posting under this section. If you need to use details, please, I ask you to put 'details' along with the Subject under its appropriate section.

    For those who have been abused, details can trigger them and cause mental and physical storms that can last for days and cause self destructive tendancies to surface or even impair the ability to function.

    While I realize that nothing should be censored regarding abuse, as it is a silent epidemic that needs a voice, I truly beg those who post here to be careful - especially the new ones, as the other members already know this.

    Abuse is individual, as individual as the types of child abuse and yet there are common themes that run through each experience.

    I do not mean to pick on Syndromology for I would like to chat with this person. This person's post brought up the topic of ritual abuse, sometimes referred to as Satanism. I think the topic deserves a voice under Child Abuse (with a warning in the Subject line). People scoff at the very idea of this type of abuse. To a child - it is very real. There ARE people sick enough and want power enough to arrange this sick kind of s..t. Let's all face it - it's the pillars of society that no one would expect - right? It's all about power and nothing more. There R parents who lend out their children. There R child porn rings. Why not this!

    As I said, I beg you - no specific details. Generalization as I've done here reach the line.

    I can request this for I am a survivor of severe and prolonged abuse. I don't think anyone who has suffered abuse would disagree with me - but if they do - their opinion is as important as anyone elses.

    I hope that I have come across as a relatively level headed person on the board despite what I've gone through in life. I am, afterall, just being myself. I sincerely hope all of you take me seriously on this.

    Triggers are dangerous. Don't allow them. Not without warning.

    Thank you for hearing me out. Feel free to email me if you want to. Many thanks.

    Mimilly (of the needing to be taken seriously on this one class)

  • Been there
    Been there

    (((((((((((Mimilly))))))))))))

  • Prisca
    Prisca

    ((((((((((((((((mimilly)))))))))))))))

    I hope that I have come across as a relatively level headed person on the board despite what I've gone through in life. I am, afterall, just being myself.

    You DO come across as a level-headed person, and a very sweet and caring one at that.

  • Lady Lee
    Lady Lee

    Well put Mimilly - a small addition like TITLE - Graphic or DETAILS would help a lot of people avoid triggering info. Most boards for survivors of abuse do this

    (((((Mimilly)))))

  • Syndromology
    Syndromology

    At least a few people here understand this.

    How can i let people mail me with them all seeing my email adres?

    Syndro

  • Hyghlandyr
    Hyghlandyr

    Mimily, much of what you talked about I havent heard of. I can deduce what you mean though. I got your email and came here. I dont know what to say, I suck at solutions. But if you need someone to listen I can try to be that. Tomorrow I help my sister move her things from her place to my wifes. We are getting ready to move to cleveland in a couple of weeks. But I should only be gone a couple of hours, so I am available most of the day.

    This is just a short note to let you know I did read what you said and I am thinking of you. Hyghyghugs to you. I will email also.

  • butalbee
    butalbee

    ((((((((((((Mimilly)))))))))))))))))

    You are absolutely right!

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