Does a Non J-Dub blame themself??

by J-DUBBED 5 Replies latest jw friends

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  J-DUBBED

  That's the question that always enters my mind.Is it possible that our son got pulled into the Cult Club because of something we did or did not do? I don't see it. We raised them good just like all their freinds and relatives were raised. There are none of his old freinds or relatives that jumped ship and went to the Cult Club.

  Are there any others out there that were "Never" J-Dubs that could relate?

  The wife and I are some what "Basket Cases" over this bullshit.

  We feel we are at a total loss.
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  All for show

  You have a PM.
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  All for show

  You have a PM.
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  cultBgone

  The Love Bombing and You Were Chosen By God are pretty tough to beat. Once you start listening, it's not that hard to get hooked. It may have been simple curiosity on his part, or it may have been female persuasion...but don't beat yourselves up over it. Our children often make choices that make us shake our heads and say WTF? You are not to blame.
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  J-DUBBED

  Once you start listening, it's not that hard to get hooked.

  Are you meaning if me, a non J-Dub, got exposed would be hooked? I would hope not.
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  cultBgone

  I mean that someone who is interested and actively soaking up their teachings can easily be hooked. If you are hearing it with the knowledge that it's crazy...hopefully that leads to a different outcome.