Many elders know no boundries. Arrogant. Self-righteous.
They approach in sheep's clothing - using phrases like 'we're concerned about you' or 'just wanted to see how you're doing' or 'here's some encouragement from the Bible'.
Their real intentions are hidden - perhaps they are making an official investigation or the want to 'catch' you doing something.
When we began our fade, our fear of man came from within the congregation. Since we're past that phase, I realize that I have the power - to not open the door, answer the phone or engage in conversation.
ginger