Having family still active Jehovah's Witnesses, I know they see things in my life a lot different than I do. As an idea, give a perspective of how you think people see you and how you see them, as the year closes. I will go first....
Witness Relative
Another year has passed and you have still not come back to the truth. All this wasted time in your life, in which you could have been an elder and pioneer. All this time you have risked the end coming and not making it to the new system. You have truly become a part of Satan's world and are blinded from the truth of Jehovah's Word.
My perspective
Another year has passed. A year that should have never been, if I was told the truth as a Witness. One hundred years now since 1914 and as a child I was told the generations that saw that year would not pass away before the end came. I should have never started school, as 1975 was also the end and reason my mother got baptized. Another year to build the even stronger resolve in my life, that the Witnesses were not just a little wrong, but completely wrong. Yes, another year to celebrate a freedom of "end of days" mind control. Since I left, you are growing older and older... when you promised me by this time, for the old to grow young. Enjoying real life.