Older, Wiser . . . Jaded. . . .

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  • compound complex
    compound complex

    I try to forget remembrance past, admittedly futile but always worth one more try. I hit the sheets and tell myself, "This time it's going to work. I will sleep. I will myself to sleep."

    I awake around 2:00 a.m., soaked to the bone. Still some residual fever from the flu, I guess. Dazed, I struggle in slow motion to free myself from a twisted, sodden sheet, grab my lump of a sweat-stained pillow and set feet to floor. Maybe I'll find a little relief sleeping standing up. Clearly, I'm not thinking clearly.

    Stumbling through the debris of many days' inattention to my studio's general health, I pick my way blearily to the airless open window and pose momentarily at the sash. The yellowed, tattered wisps of some ancient lace curtain hang limp and motionless, framing in a view I've come to hate:

    Me, myself and I reflect back from a conjured mirror of the soul. That green, naive whelp, that inveterate idealist . . .

    My much older, wiser and jaded shell of spent humanity gazes downward through an opened pane of filthy glass.

    I eye with menace my once youthful, scrubbed ruddiness and earnestness. Though dressed in somewhat worn hand-me-down threads, my tattered saintliness won over not a few souls. Little did I then realize that the inherent naturalness of youthful persuasion had been reeled in, unhooked and shoved into the creel of rigid and uncompromising uniformity. Unwittingly, I had been selling my own soul while winning over the souls of trusting men, women and children. From my enlightened vantage point I look back in time, I look down at my beautiful, young manhood. From an imagined darkened pane I see my reflection and despise what I have become. Strangely, a cool sense of tranquility washes over me as I come out of my reverie, my black reminiscence.

    The vision of my youthful ideals embodied in vaporous shadow on the pavement below has evaporated. Gone for the moment but sure to return as an untold want, a want, a wish for explanation why it all went so wrong. Yet, wrong by whose interpretation? I learn to shut it out, shut out the noise in the head called irrational thought, excessive thinking that leads only to depression, if not, eventually, to insanity.

    I pull away from the window, shut it tight against the chilly predawn air, and forget my dark reflection. It's only a phantom, scarcely the real me. A walk in the moonlight will do me good. I will see my inner turmoil in a new light, the softly suffused illumination della bella luna. The black shadow of the walking dead, cast upon the asphalt by the gracious moon, will be my companion.

  • compound complex
    compound complex

    I'm very happy to be where I am today in real life.

    I love real life!

    Cheers!

    CoCo

  • compound complex
    compound complex

    I am comforted by the realization that my little life has not been lived and spent totally in vain. There's been a lot of good stuff come my way. Most of my mistakes were not life altering.

    Certainly, I would have done some things differently: I would have erred more on the side of kindness rather than judgment; I would have fed and clothed those in need instead of wishing that, somehow, they would be warm and well fed; I would have used daily or given away those "special things" I owned (they wound up safe and useless in storage).

    Though called a "man of God," I would have preached less and allowed the unlettered and ordinary man to teach me a thing or two about what is truly the "real life."

  • rip van winkle
    rip van winkle

    Oh, CoCo! How I love to read your words!

    Such a shame that we only acquire a certain amount of wisdom with age. The things that were important then don't seem nearly so important anymore. Realities of life and ones priorities change. Growth happens. Sometimes it hurts. Other times it does not.

    CoCo, thank you for all the beautiful pearls you so kindly share with us here!

  • compound complex
    compound complex

    You are welcome, dear rip, and I thank you for your own words, words of wisdom and reassurance . . .

    CoCo

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  • LisaRose
    LisaRose

    Nice. I think we have all been there, looking back at our younger selves, wondering why we didn't see it.

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