Afterfinding out that my soon to ve ex-husband's jw mom is deathly ill, and that he wont be visiting her ( she lives in anothrr country) after he made plans, i only assumed the jw conscience kicked in. He must have been summarily disinvited by his father who initially called to inform him that his mother was crying to see him. So here's tge email i wrote to his lazy obese brother:
Hi XXXXX, I hear that your mother is super sick. I hope she feels better soon. What does she have? And why is your brother not going to visit her anymore? He sounds really hurt about it. I hope it's not a decision that was made bc he is currently disfellowshipped. This is a time when he should be allowed contact with his mother because she is so ill. Your father and you should not have to worry about your position in the congregation. It can easily be kept quiet. Or if you're not comfortable being around him, both you and your father can stay at a friend's house. The loving thing and the Christian thing to do is to allow son and mother time together since she is so sick. Ask yourself, what would Jesus do in a situation like this? Did he not resurrect a child so that the mother would be with her son? Clearly, Jesus cared about family unity. I hope that everyone will reconsider. Btw, XXXXX has not asked me to write. But I will still speak up for him during difficult times. I hope that you will speak up for him too, As he took care of you when you lived with us, providing you with everything you needed and looked after when your own father would not. Please, show brotherly love to your only brother.
Truly,
XXXXXX
May be naive on my part, but idon't care! Ya no me importa! I truly hate the hypocrisy and the utter lack of love amongst Jehovah's Witnesses.