I dreaded marrying "in the truth" for a whole different reason...
(BTW I am single, soooo glad I have never married, and so glad that I can date anyone I want to now)
Did you know that [email protected] and [email protected] sex are prohibited under the WT? That if you practice or promote them EVEN WHILE MARRIED you can be disfellowshipped if someone in the congregation gets to know about it?
This was my first major problem with JW's... I did not agree at all with this, I thought this would be impossible for me (always the same sex in the same position and not trying anything else)... plus hearing comments of my friends, some married, some even elders, that implied they were doing other stuff in the bedroom, led me to believe that not many people know about this doctrine (did you?)...
But, just a couple of months ago, I was a "good JW"... so I really wondered, if I married someone in the "truth™", and I wanted to do other things, how would I tell my wife? What if I was promoted to an MS™ or an Elder™? You cannot have "special privileges™" if you are doing these things... so my complication was much worse than yours!! Also, what if later I did not want to be a JW? Would that destroy my marriage?