Ever meet someone in their twenties, or younger, who has a kid and married with a parent who still pays the bills. Like they are trying there best to keep that marriage healthy, to make sure they have a good family to keep the child raised in a family. I know we all have seen this ... here is something I have learned over four decades. All of those marriages, 100% failed! So if you are a parent, a friend or anyone who knows someone like this. Let them know, good marriages grow in what can be perceived as the worst conditions and if you try to raise your kids when they are married and having kids. You are really wasting your time.