Mrs. Toth's dad fell and broke his elbow and is going in for surgery tomorrow. His heart is not so strong but they need to risk surgery to repair his elbow and put a metal rod in his upper arm otherwise things can get even worse they say. You can probably imagine that my wife is VERY upset by the situation and my hands are full trying to keep her calm. They are very close. I feel that this is due to his overzealous pioneer/abusive and neglectful wife just not being there for him. I'm calling adult protective services to keep the file on him updated and so they don't let her slip through the craks if she is in fact to blame for this.
If you are a praying person please keep him and the family in your prayers. If you are not a praying person, please keep him in your thoughts.
Thanks to everyone!