an email to a friend

by zev 1 Replies latest jw friends

  • zev
    zev

    i have a friend, who since i left the wt, has been writing to me, and trying his best to remain a friend, in spite of how i feel about the wt. i had avoided the issue, up until now. although i cannot post his emails here, i can however post my email to him. he is an elder in my old kh, and we used to go fishing together all the time.

    for months i've been struggling with this trying to get away from it all, and telling him to tell everyone there, leave me alone, don't try to contact me.

    he was the only person who cared, and made any effort of any sort to see how i was, and if i was ok. of course, i told him repeatedly, i was fine, very happy, and doing great.

    although i refuse to sent a d.a. letter, i had to find a way to tell him how i felt so that he could understand my position.

    it will be interesting to watch the results of this over the next few days, to the next few weeks.
    so this is what i sent him.

    zev's elder friend,
    it has taken much time, energy, and thought as to tell you what i am now
    about to tell you.
    if it wasn't for our friendship, it would have been much easier.
    but that isn't the case and i feel i owe you at least this short, brief
    explaination.
    on the official web site for the Watchtower Society,
    at this url: http://www.jw-media.org/beliefs/beliefsfaq.htm
    you will find, in part, this quote:
    "Do you shun former members?"
    "Those who simply cease to be involved in the faith are not shunned."
    that sums it up, in a nutshell.
    i am ceasing to be involved in the faith.
    i realize this will put you and i in an awkward position.
    and i realize that you will have to do what you have to do.
    however, that is my position, and thats that.

    zev

    i welcome anyone's thoughts.

    i'll be sure to update this thread with any results from this as well.

    g'day y'all

    -Zev
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  • LittleToe
    LittleToe

    Hi Zev,

    Tenderly done.
    I would suggest that the phrase "i am ceasing to be involved in the faith" may likely be taken out of the context in which you placed it, in relation to the Website.
    I hope you retain the friendship, if that is your wish.

    You and Gwen are in my prayers,
    LT

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