The Witnesses stance on seeing a psychologist?

by Bells 5 Replies latest watchtower beliefs

  • Bells
    Bells

    Can anyone clear this up for me?

    I was under the impression that Witnesses were strongly discouraged from seeking help from any therapist / psychologist outside of the organisation. This always made sense to me because I'd imagine that many psychologists would realise that a Witness belongs to a very high control group once they start speaking to them.

    Anyway - my Witness relative has very recently been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. I was worried that she wouldn't be able to get the appropriate help, however she said that she will be seeing a non-witness specialist and this is totally acceptable because the Witnesses recognise mental health issues (I guess they'd have to with the high number of Witnesses that suffer from mental health problems!) and individuals are encouraged to seek help as they see fit.

    What is your understanding of this? Have you ever been told as a Witness that you shouldn't see a psychologist? Is there inconsistencies with this guidleine from congregation to congregation, or country to country??

  • blondie
    blondie

    The WTS gives STRONG cautions in writing about going to psychologists/psychiatrists. They realize if they forbade it in writing they would open themselves up to lawsuits. Individual congregation bodies of elders, or individual elders, jw family members, do and have given their personal opinion and changed a STRONG suggestion into one of saying that faithful jws don't need such help.

    *** w96 9/1 pp. 30-31 Questions From Readers ***

    Would it be wise for a Christian to consult a mental-health practitioner?

    Reports from some lands indicate that there has been an increase in emotional and mental illnesses in these “last days.” (2 Timothy 3:1) Christians feel deep compassion when fellow believers are affected, but they recognize that each one must decide for himself whether to seek treatment for his illness and, if so, what kind of treatment. “Each one will carry his own load.” (Galatians 6:5) Some, suffering severely from schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, deep clinical depression, obsessive-compulsive disorder, self-mutilation, and other distressing disorders, have been able to live fairly normal lives after obtaining the right professional help.

    In some places it has become quite fashionable to seek therapy.In many cases the patient does not have a severe mental disorder but has difficulty coping with some situation in life. However, it is the Bible that gives the most effective help in handling the difficult problems of life. (Psalm 119:28, 143) Through the Bible, Jehovah supplies wisdom, thinking ability, and true knowledge—things that fortify us mentally and emotionally. (Proverbs 2:1-11; Hebrews 13:6) Faithful servants of God may express themselves irrationally at times because of severe inner turmoil. (Job 6:2, 3) James 5:13-16 encourages such ones to call on the elders for help and counsel. A Christian may be spiritually sick, or he may be distressed by an unchangeable circumstance or by oppressive stresses, or he may feel that he is the victim of injustice. (Ecclesiastes 7:7; Isaiah 32:2; 2 Corinthians 12:7-10) Such a person can find help with the elders, who will ‘grease him with oil’—that is, skillfully impart comforting Bible counsel—and also “pray over him.” The result? “The prayer of faith will make the indisposed one well, and Jehovah will raise him up [out of his despondency or his feeling of being abandoned by God].”

    What, though, if a person’s mental distress and confusion persist despite the skillful help of spiritual shepherds? Some in this situation have chosen to undergo a thorough physical examination. (Compare Proverbs 14:30; 16:24; 1 Corinthians 12:26.) A physical problem may lie behind emotional or mental distress. Treating such a problem has in some cases given relief to the emotionally ill person. If no physical problem is found, the physician, upon request, may recommend a mental-health professional. What then? As stated, this is a decision each individual must weigh for himself. Others should not criticize or judge.—Romans 14:4.

    Nevertheless, practical wisdom must be exercised and care taken not to forget Bible principles. (Proverbs 3:21; Ecclesiastes 12:13) In the case of physical sickness, patients are faced with a variety of treatment choices, from orthodox medicine to therapies such as naturopathy, acupuncture, and homeopathy. There are also different kinds of mental-health practitioners. Among them are analytic psychotherapists and others, who may delve into the patient’s personal history to try to find reasons for irregular behavior or painful emotions. Behavioral psychotherapists may try to help the patient learn new behavior patterns. Some mental-health practitioners believe that most mental illnesses should be treated with drugs. Reportedly, others recommend diet and vitamins.

    Patients and their families should use caution when considering these choices. (Proverbs 14:15) Significantly, Professor Paul McHugh, director of the Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences at the Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine, said that the mental-health profession “is a rudimentary medical art. It lacks easy access to proof of its proposals even as it deals with disorders of the most complex features of human life—mind and behavior.” This situation leaves the door open to eccentricity and fraud, as well as well-intentioned treatments that may do more harm than good.

    It should be mentioned, too, that while psychiatrists and psychologists have professional, postgraduate degrees, many others with no professional qualifications practice without supervision as counselors or therapists. Some individuals have spent a lot of money consulting such unqualified people.

    Even with a trained, qualified mental-health professional, there are things to consider. When choosing a medical doctor or surgeon, we have to be sure that he will respect our Bible-based views. Similarly, it would be dangerous to consult a mental-health professional who does not respect our religious and moral views. Many Christians are striving hard, despite mental and emotional confusion, to have “the same mental attitude that Christ Jesus had.” (Romans 15:5) Such are rightly concerned about the attitudes of anyone who might affect their thinking or behavior. Some practitioners view any restrictions imposed by Scriptural beliefs as unnecessary and potentially harmful to mental health. They may approve, even recommend, practices condemned in the Bible, such as homosexuality or marital infidelity.

    These ideas are included in what the apostle Paul called “the contradictions of the falsely called ‘knowledge.’” (1 Timothy 6:20) They contradict the truth about the Christ and are part of “the philosophy and empty deception” of this world. (Colossians 2:8) The Bible’s touchstone is clear: “There is no wisdom, nor any discernment, nor any counsel in opposition to Jehovah.” (Proverbs 21:30) Mental-health practitioners who say “good is bad and bad is good” are “bad associations.” Far from helping to heal unstable minds, they will “spoil useful habits.”—Isaiah 5:20; 1 Corinthians 15:33.

    So a Christian who feels that it is necessary to consult a mental-health professional should scrutinize the qualifications, attitude, and reputation of the practitioner and the possible effect of any treatment recommended. If a distressed Christian cannot do this himself, perhaps a mature, close friend or relative may be able to help. A Christian who is uncertain as to the wisdom of a particular treatment may find that talking with the elders in the congregation is helpful—although the final decision is his own (or his parents’, or the joint decision of husband and wife).

    Science can do much more today than in times past to alleviate suffering. Still, there are many diseases—both physical and mental—that at present are incurable and have to be endured through this system of things. (James 5:11) In the meantime “the faithful and discreet slave,” the elders, and all others in the congregation reach out a hand of compassion and support to sick ones. And Jehovah himself strengthens them to endure until that glorious time when sickness will be no more.—Matthew 24:45; Psalm 41:1-3; Isaiah 33:24.

    [Footnotes]

    Sometimes an individual may be asked to undergo a psychiatric evaluation, perhaps when being considered for high-level employment. Whether one submits to such an evaluation or not is a personal decision, but it should be noted that a psychiatric evaluation is not psychiatric treatment.

    See “Winning the Battle Against Depression,” in the March 1, 1990, issue of The

    Watchtower.

    Some mental illnesses seem to respond well to the correct medications. But these medications must be used with caution under the guidance of skilled and experienced medical physicians or psychiatrists, since there can be severe side effects if dosages are not correctly adjusted.

    See the article “Mental Distress—When It Afflicts a Christian” in the October 15, 1988, issue of The

    Watchtower.

  • jamiebowers
    jamiebowers

    I was a jw in the 1980's and getting help with mental illness was generally frowned upon. My jw husband was first a suicidal maniac and later a homocidal maniac, and I consulted with a medical doctor who was also a jw elder. Once he activated forced committment to a mental hospital, the elders seemed okay with it. The elders in two different congregations that we attended actually encouraged him staying on his meds and keeping appointments with his psychiatrist. Upon the first forced committment, he was diagnosed as schizophrenic.

    Unfortunately he didn't stay on his meds and was forcibly committed to a mental institution for a second time. I suffered years of physical abuse at his hands, and my life was also threatened. What is terrible about the Watch Tower in the case of mental illness is that spouses of the afflicted are supposed to take the abuse and stay quiet about it. Even after my jw husband's psychiatrist said that he would probably follow through on his death threats to me, and a judge agreed and signed the forced committment order, the elders tried to bully me into staying in the marriage.

    One thing to note about the mentally ill in the organization is that if they see a counselor or psychiatrist who is a jw, they must sign a waiver of privacy. So there is no doctor-patient confidentiality. If the afflicted jw confides committing a sin, the jw therapist will report such to the elders. There have been posts here on JWN about that, but I can't recall which ones they are. Please try to keep your jw relative away from jw counselors.

  • thecrushed
    thecrushed

    I can speak from experience since I've already been in a fight with my wife about seeing a therapist. She told me she was extremely disapointed that I chose to see a therapist instead of going to the elders with my issues. Whatever you read in the watchtower is just doublespeak lipservice. I will point out that they have no problem with psychiatrists because they just pump you full of drugs and don't try and talk to you about your issues.

  • Bells
    Bells

    Thanks Blondie - you're a wealth of knowledge!! :)

    I will do my best to keep this relative away from any sort of JW counsellor! I know that another of my relatives (mother inlaw) does speak with the Witness counsellor - whether they are an elder or not I'm not sure. In saying that, she's pretty straight and deeply involved in 'the truth' - so I don't really think she would even have any sins to confess! Interesting about the waiver they have to sign though!!! That's so controlling it's unbelievable!

  • outsmartthesystem
    outsmartthesystem

    Ya wanna know something?

    My FIL gets disability payments because 20 years ago, he convinced the insurance company that he was no longer able to handle the mental stress of his desk job. Yet the man runs himself emotionally ragged serving on hospital visitation committees, serving on judicial committees etc etc. As a condition of his monthly disability check....he must visit a phychiatrist once per week.

    The irony is that to serve as an elder, he must prove that he is of sound mind. Yet in order to get his monthly check....he must be able to prove that he is not of sound mind.

    theocratic warfare at its finest.

    This is the man that can do no wrong in my wife's eyes.

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