If you are a non-JW married to a JW, how do you deal with those times during the week when he or she slips out for several hours with bookbag in hand, going door to door? Your spouse is out there actively recruiting for the Watchtower - do you have a problem with that? Do you ask your spouse if he/she is up front with the prospective convert? As in,
- if they get baptised it's for keeps and if they decide later that they want to leave they will be shunned like a leper by their families and friends?
- every aspect of their lives will be controlled by seven men in Brooklyn whose word cannot under any circumstance be questioned else they will be shunned like a leper by their families and friends?
- the times the Watchtower has incorrectly prophesized the end of the world?
- the two witness rule?
What do you ask your spouse? Do you even discuss it?