I emigrated to another country 10 years ago and did my fade. If I decide to get myself DF'd (by telling the next elder who visits me to "go and do one") is it likely they'll send a letter to my old congregation to tell them the news? I'm from the UK but am living in a non-English speaking country. I'm just a bit worried they'll spoil things for me, as I have some family still 'in'. My current PO has written to my old cong in the past, and has their details still.
I still get the encouragement visits even after 10 years, but just avoid them and don't answer the door. They still greet me in the street, and around town etc, but I just want to tell them to get lost, coz it gets on my nerves.