I haven't posted in a long, long time, so many of you don't know me. I was never a J.W. One of my daughters is involved with them, and will be baptized soon.
Anyway, it's my anniversary, 43 years today, (May 11), and my j.w. daughter calls me and wishes me a "Happy Anniversary", then invites my wife and I out on Sunday to "celebrate" it. I really don't want to go. Every Holiday, we get hurt because she and her hubby don't show up. Not even a call on Mother's Day, but oh, when it's our anniversary, we get the call. I am still hurt that she didn't even call her Mom on Mothers day, yet she wants to take us out for our anniversary. I just don't feel comfortable doing that. I mean, if they can't celebrate Mother's Day, why should they be allowed to celebrate anniversaries? It's basically the same thing.
So, I don't know what to do. I feel like calling her and telling her in a nice way that I really don't feel comfortable doing this. It's just ridiculous. There's no sense to it at all. I'm tired of being hurt all the time, then getting a call and acting as if there's nothing wrong with this picture.
Cheer me up? Any advice? Thanks.