during my early 20ies while studying the bible, and many years after babtizm, i never dated even one sister! not one!
my cong was like in nomansland, and consisted of many older jws. so it was pretty depressing as a young brother without the slightest hope of finding an appropriate partner.
but one day, a very hot looking sister joined our club for a while, so all of a sudden, there were all types of dudes from other congs coming to our meetings.
i don´t know how this conversation came about, but one jw gave me the advice, not to mention a persons name in prayer, because god will know who the right sister will be a suitable partner. hahaha!
so in other words: if you fancy someone, and you seem to get along together: for goodness sake, never have her on your mind during prayer! let god decide what is good for you!
it was the loniest years of my whole life. it was like locking myself in a cellar on purpose. very depressing!
where you told a similar thing about praying for mr/mrs right? its not biblical, is it?