When your insanely active JW family members start leaning on your more moderate JW family members who still talk to and associate with you to get them to "mark" (aka "shun") you, how do you channel your anger/frustration into something useful?
I keep trying to show the moderate JWs the contrast between the unkind active JW's shunning behavior and the REAL love the Christ spoke about. It works to keep my moderate Dub family in touch with me but it doesn't really do anything for my mood. Every time a JW family member tells me that another Dub has been leaning on them to avoid me it frankly pisses me off.
It isn't that I want to associate with uber-Dubs, but I don't want them actively working to take my remaining family away from me, either.
I'm sure this happens (or has happened) to many of you. How did/do you deal with it?