Good info in this one Especially at the 15 minute mark.
http://www.zshare.net/audio/167352166a5f59f8/
This is an audio snipet of TD jakes book HE-motions. It is 40 minutes long.
I would like to say that while his profession is a bishop, I present this on the merits of the information and the value it could be in helping men to better understand themselves and their situation in life. Frosty is not trying to get anyone to follow anybody this is just some insightfull information that I wanted to share.