G'day Noelle,
We're sorry your first thread on JWD should have disappeared. The moderators removed it because some posters had hijacked it and broken Posting Guidelines in making abusive comments. One of them has been temporarily deleted from JWD.
Many times we may not agree with other posters on JWD but we try to maintain it as a welcoming place for ALL, no matter whether we (whoever that may be!) agree with the sentiments or not.
So, welcome to JWD.
And thanks to carla, Sad Emo, didgeridoo, Snowbird and yknot for sharing in welcoming you.
cheers from downunder,
Ozzie