I think I found my soon to be new "Best Friend"...

by FreedomFrog 8 Replies latest jw friends

  • FreedomFrog
    FreedomFrog

    I'm a person that it takes a while to learn...or to become close enough to consider "close" or "best" friends. I've been going out to occasional parties, coffee, Barnes and Noble places and have been around this wonderful lady. We've been invited to several places at the same party and tonight we realized that we both have many things in common.

    First, I'm a Leo and I do believe that your birth chart has valid merits to them. She is also a Leo and we were comparing notes....we have realized that we like/dislike the same things.

    As a Leo, I'm bossy (I admit), very picky on a lot of things, have trouble getting close to people but also know that once a friend always a friend.

    I feel pretty good right now because there aren't too many people who "get" Leo's. We're going to go out for coffee next Saturday to compare more notes.

    After talking with her for over 6 months, I'm realizing ...I think I found my new best friend!!!

    I have been looking for friends outside of the JW's for over 4 years now...I'm excited to know that I may have just found that.

    If you have a "best" friend...do you remember the connection...the moment when you realized this was going to be your best friend?

  • Tired of the Hypocrisy
    Tired of the Hypocrisy

    So Leo found his Lionesse. Cool. I hope things go well for you guys.

  • LouBelle
    LouBelle

    I don't have *a* best friend .... I will be a good friend if you want one, some friendships go deeper than other and some friends are just to party with. If we can have a comfortable silence - I know we're on the road for a deep meaningful relationship, where we don't have to fill the silence with needless chatter, we can just enjoy being.

  • sacolton
    sacolton

    I thought his name was going to be Jack Daniels.

  • lisavegas420
    lisavegas420

    ....I'm happy for you Gina. I hope I get to meet her...I know if you like her I will.

    lisa

  • freydi
    freydi

    A REASON, A SEASON, OR A LIFETIME

    People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
    When you know what it is, you will know what to do for that person.
    When someone is in your life for a reason, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support. to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are.

    They are there for a reason you need them to be. Then, without wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring this relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met. our desire fulfilled, their work done. The prayer you sent up was answered and now it is time to move on.

    Some people come into your life for a season, because your time has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it. It is real, but only for a season.

    Lifetime relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

    Thank you for being part of my life, whether for a reason, a season or a lifetime.

  • sspo
    sspo

    I thought you were getting a dog but i'm glad it's a lady.

  • FreedomFrog
    FreedomFrog
    So Leo found his Lionesse. Cool. I hope things go well for you guys.

    Well, not quite "that" way...lol She's a gal friend...I'm a gal looking for friends I can call up and invite to coffee, chit-chat about nothing, go shopping and do that kind of stuff. I'm not one to warm up to people close enough to call and invite to places. We crossed the "line" of being acquaintance to being friends to where we were able to share a few personal only friends type share. In fact, she got after me last night for over thinking about a few things (which I seem to do a lot...LOL)...which I need that right now.

    ....I'm happy for you Gina. I hope I get to meet her...I know if you like her I will.

    You would love her Lisa, she's very real. Maybe all of us gals could go shopping one day around your place like we did before. We'd have a blast I'm sure.

  • Hope4Others
    Hope4Others

    My sons a Leo and his girlfriend was a Leo, god were they on the same wavelength it was uncanny

    at times. I probably get along with him the best.

    h40

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