Suicide Hearts Are Wild

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  • Perry
    Perry

    Heart Transplant Patient Kills Himself in Same Manner as Donor

    Monday, April 07, 2008

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    HILTON HEAD ISLAND, S.C. — A man who received a heart transplant 12 years ago and later married the donor's widow died the same way the donor did, authorities said: of a self-inflicted gunshot wound.

    No foul play was suspected in 69-year-old Sonny Graham's death at his Vidalia, Ga., home, investigators said. He was found Tuesday in a utility building in his backyard with a single shotgun wound to the throat, said Greg Harvey, a special agent with the Georgia Bureau of Investigation.

    Graham, who was director of the Heritage golf tournament at Sea Pines from 1979 to 1983, was on the verge of congestive heart failure in 1995 when he got a call that a heart was available in Charleston.

    That heart was from Terry Cottle, 33, who had shot himself, Berkeley County Coroner Glenn Rhoad said.

    Grateful for his new heart, Graham began writing letters to the donor's family to thank them. In January 1997, Graham met his donor's widow, Cheryl Cottle, then 28, in Charleston.

    "I felt like I had known her for years," Graham told The (Hilton Head) Island Packet for a story in 2006. "I couldn't keep my eyes off her. I just stared."

  • R.Crusoe
    R.Crusoe

    I imgine there was a lot going on here!

    Yu can imagine her connection to this older guy on the grounds he had her husbands heart!!

    Maybe he detected she was bound to the husband and not him and so decided to let rest a death that happened them years ago and release her from his aging demise?

    Hard to tell - but maybe she reads this as her husband finally laid to rest?

  • Satanus
    Satanus

    Maybe it was the widow, not the heart that drove them over the edge.

    S

  • Perry
    Perry

    Sounds like the making of a great hitchcock type flick

  • Casper
    Casper

    ... That's just odd... that poor lady... what she must be thinking...

    Cas

  • Burger Time
    Burger Time

    He died as he lived...of a self inflicted gun shot wound.

  • R.Crusoe
    R.Crusoe

    Reasons why more men than women do this say a lot about humanity and the inequalities that go unnoticed as acceptable pressures of life!

    For one - the age gap would add to problems IMO,

    second - the first husband must be stressed to do what he did.

    third - so must the second husband but I could see why he may have gotten low with a young wife at his age.

    I will desist from any further speculation - it is a sad situation!

  • Hope4Others
    Hope4Others

    heart transplant 12 years ago and later married the donor's widow

    Wow that's quite eery, he was still almost 30 yrs older than her that is a huge age gap. It might not seem to make a

    difference early on but it does when the older ones start to have the health problems and slows down tremendously

    and the partner still wants to keep going/doing exciting things etc.

    h

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