Last three or so months were probably the worst days of my life far exceeding any bullshit I’ve been through because of wtbs, where one thing came after another without a warning. While I don’t want to cry here about it I just want to say to everyone to not just feel for the members of your close families, children in particular, but to show it to them as well. As someone once said “what you feel only matters to you. it's what you do to the people you love that counts.”
Us men are particularly guilty of it. We always postpone things. Always pushing it for some future tomorrow. You know what, don’t be surprised if that tomorrow never comes and you wake up when it’s too late.
Men are masters of pretense and that thing called everything-is-just-fine. Well like any other lie even that one comes back to kick your ass. I hate now myself for spending time on things that didn’t make a f&%$* difference but I can’t turn back time now. So it is all good and well to spend time with mates, doing things you love including coming regularly to this board, but don’t forget those around you that you might be unintentionally taking for granted, because one day they may be there and another day gone forever.
Don't just buy things to them but buy out some time to be with them.