There is a book that I highly recommend reading, that even possibly you could give to JW's (as it mentions nothing about them, although they would get the message).
The title is: THE SUBTLE POWER OF SPIRITUAL ABUSE By David Johnson & Jeff VanVonderen. It is written for 'Recognizing and escaping Spiritual Manipulation and False Spiritual Authority Within the Church (any church).
Bethany House Publishers, Minneapolis, MN 55438 ISBN 1-55661-160-9
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