How the Saved view the Fallen

by The wanderer 1 Replies latest jw friends

  • The wanderer
    The wanderer
    How the Saved View the Fallen

    Recalling an incident that happened some
    years ago led me to this topic of discussion. It has probably happened to others and that
    is why I have chosen to write about it.

    When I was studying with a "Shepard of the Flock"

    This was one of those "signals" which those of us who were one
    of Jehovah's Witnesses encountered, but for one reason or another
    tended to suppress, avoid, make excuses for, or remained in denial
    because of it.

    When I was first studying with Jehovah's Witnesses I went out in
    field service with this "elder", who on passing this brothers house
    made critical remarks about him.

    No longer attending meetings

    You see this brother was no longer attending meetings. Now he
    was not an "apostate" nor "disfellowshiped" or "disassociated" he
    simply was a fader in the organization.

    When we went passed this brother's home, all the "elder" could do
    was bad mouth the brother and criticize him because he was not
    attending meetings.

    My thoughts were "Why don't you try and befriend the brother
    instead of berate him"? You never know he just might come around.

    What attitudes have you encountered with the saved ones?

    • When you were one of Jehovah's Witnesses what attitude did individuals
      have regarding a "lost sheep"? Were they sympathetic?
      Were you sympathetic?
    • Did individuals tend to criticize the individual or
      did they feel sorry for the person that was now gone?

    Please provide your input by posting your comments so that all can learn.

    Respectfully,

    The Wanderer

  • serendipity
    serendipity

    I personally was barely critical, but usually sympathetic. I'd say something like "He's not doing anything about the truth." I also heard that statement repeated by others over the years. Now, they're saying it about me.

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