I was talking to a friend of mine...she's inactive at present but attends some meetings here and there. I have a very hard time getting through to her, anyway.... she's starting a business and is in this workshop that teaches her the processes of being a businessowner. She stated that the lady teaching the class told them that this is a blessing from God. She stood there real quiet while everyone else agreed and acknowledged what the teacher said by making various comments. The teacher noticed that she (my girlfriend) was real quiet and asked why. She (my girlfriend) stated that she was always taught by her JW mother that if you don't go to the house of Jehovah you're not blessed.
I told my girlfriend that her mother says this because this is the way we are all taught. I remember many times feeling unworthy of anything because I was not serving Jehovah as I should. That's so wrong.
Another time a recently disfellowshipped ms mentioned to me that he was totally lost..."what was he going to do". Out of all of the studying of the bible (my girlfriend used to be a pioneer) and he a ms, I don't get how they can't think out of the box and realize that Jehovah loves them no matter what. I always equate it a parent...we love our children regardless...we just try to correct their thinking at times and guide them along the way. It's a terrible thing that the JW org teaches people that there is absolutely no hope for anyone not doing what they say you should be doing. Almost like the hell & brimstone teaching...