As I understand it, both parties do not have to agree to release. Also, if distributed free under the banner of Ecclesiastical Privilege in an electronic format...
It is my firmly held belief, and the belief of all adherents to my faith, that "The sins of some men are publicly manifest, leading directly to judgment, but as for other men [their sins] also become manifest later. In the same way also the fine works are publicly manifest and those that are otherwise cannot be kept hid." (1 Timothy 5:24-25)
Our charitable work is to make these sins known. We know not where or when such may be uncovered to us, but once it has been uncovered there is no way to hide it from light. Praise the Law!
AuldSoul (of the "They Will Regret Making Me" class)