homework thread continued (PIC)

by SnakesInTheTower 9 Replies latest members private

  • SnakesInTheTower
    SnakesInTheTower

    Continued from here. I am continuing this in the Private section to avoid Googlebots since there is a photo attached (at the time I posted).

    Last night the 8YO and his mom got home around 530 pm. We had dinner and then she went back to her old apartment to do some sorting. My soon to be stepson and I started on the project at 7. The goal was to be done by 8:30. Yeah....ok.... The research (finding "facts") had been googled the day before by him. He needed to narrow down and simplify some of these facts down to about 3 large index cards for his presentation and his poster. We sat on the couch together and I gave him a highlighter (flashbacks to Watchtower lessons...**shudder**lol)...

    He found facts that he liked and answered some of the questions the teacher said needed answering. I circled 3 of the sets of facts and sat him at the computer and had him type them into Word. Didn't matter that it would take 10 times as long versus me doing it...he was doing it. I had a kitchen to clean.

    He got that done... then we sat down together and simplified both what he typed and pulled some other facts (these I copy/pasted and edited myself...no way in hell was I doing all that typing..) The 8YO notices this and says... "hey, I typed all that for nothing..." uhhhh.... "no, because it helps you remember the facts for your presentation."

    I give him a 10 minute break because I have to trim one of the pieces of posterboard to fit the foam board it was to be mounted on. I wasn't letting him use my sharp box cutter...heh heh.... I reformatted his facts with boxes so he could cut them himself.... I knew it wouldn;t be perfect, that is not the point (or so I thought)...the point was he did it. Once all the elements were cut out (at the last minute, he wanted to fill a space with a cut out of the eel...ynot posted the exact same drawing that we had...8YO traced that..very well I might add...added some detail... and I cut it out...he then glued all the elements onto the board.... we got finished about 8:45...little later than I had planned...

    I took him to school...of course, I got in trouble with the crosswalk lady because I parked in the yellow zone...what yellow zone? I parked away from the crosswalk? Oh, you mean the very faded yellow paint covered in leaves that the city (the same city that sends its cop to harrass me for open burning...lol) hasn't bothered to repaint? That yellow line? Noted for future reference. She was nice, I was nice...I locked the car and crossed the street.

    I get to the classroom and several other parents were there with their kids projects. Are you freaking kidding me? There was entirely too much parental involvement in several of them. Good thing I printed out the facts instead of having our 8YO hand write them. I though ours was nice....one kid would have done a PowerPoint if he had known it was allowed...another of the kids had no index cards for his presentation...because he had memorized it....sh*t....how gifted are these kids? Well, our 8YO went over his presentation with me...after each sentence he looked up at me (10 points for eye contact......flashback to Theocratic Ministry School...**shudder**)

    Hope he does a good job....wish I could have been there to hear it.

    Snakes (Rich )

    I am posting his picture here in the Private section. He posed like that with no prompting..... I hurriedly took a pic with my cell phone as we were leaving today. I debated about cropping him out but his mom had said she didn't mind if I posted so I hope that is still OK.... so if the pic is gone, its because I removed the photo from photobucket to break the link. You cannot see the detail of the facts because its a 1.5 MP cell phone... The picture in the center and the drawing in the upper left you can see under ynots post on page 1...same ones. the tracing of the eel is on the right...the other 3 elements are various facts about the eel.

  • Heaven
    Heaven

    Sounds like fun! I used to love helping my nephews and neice with their homework. Your soon-to-be-step-son is cute too... you can see his Mom in him.

    Thanks for sharing this with us Snakes! Very cool. ( BTW... bbq'ed eel tastes pretty good.... just sayin'. )

  • snowbird
    snowbird

    Thanks for sharing, even though I can't see pictures.

    You are a good person, a good dad, and a good writer!

    Sylvia

  • SnakesInTheTower
    SnakesInTheTower

    why can't you see the pictures? it is linked to photobucket http://i224.photobucket.com/albums/dd193/snakesITT1/SSPX0042.jpg

    and we will see about how good a "dad" I am...its only been 4 months since this whole odyssey started.... it will take time to earn respect to earn the moniker "dad."

    Snakes (rich )

  • snowbird
    snowbird

    Blocked at work.

    Sylvia

  • yknot
    yknot

    I like the contrasting blue to really make the pics and factoids pop!

    The cutout was a really great idea too!

    Tell the little tyke your forum friends think his subject choice and poster was AAA+ Awesome!

    I really hope yall can continue a good relationship as steppies (it is important to his development!)

    I assume he will get an A or B unless his teacher is a heartless monster....... so Snakes please take the boy out for a round of Rootbeer floats as a great tradition to toast his accomplishments and to create a safe talking venue where he can have those confiding man to man talks in the future. (establishing a trusted tradition where one can talk freely will help ease the teen angst years).

    Hmm now that you are 'out' maybe yall can look into scouting or 4H.......

    Sorry I just love kids, they are such interesting creatures with their developing mind and innocent enthusiasm!

    Maybe add a sibling in two years.......(sorry my biological clock is acting up today....visited (shopped, gossiped) with an expectant DFd Sister this morning after dropping mine off at school ...boo-hoo, I am an empty nester today until 2!!!)

  • SnakesInTheTower
    SnakesInTheTower

    ynot:

    Snakes please take the boy out for a round of Rootbeer floats as a great tradition to toast his accomplishments and to create a safe talking venue

    ironic you said rootbeer floats..I make great ones..... he gets diet (cant have too much sugar) Fitz's Root Beer where they make it and have a restaraunt, a hometown (St. Louis) favorite... I have taken Toni and him there a couple of times (I buy the bottled ones at the grocery)...after we have his favorite meal at Noodles & Co. across the street (Delmar Loop...a great walking neighborhood in St. Louis/ University City, MO)....

    At home, I will occasionally make floats here with Vanilla Breyers Ice Cream... in frosty mugs (which I always have kept in the freezer...even before I met them)...

    so yeah... he gets an A or B.... no prob... root beer floats..... now if he lost the 10 points because he didnt listen to his classmates' presentations politely...well..we had that talk today before we left the house...lol

    The cutout was a really great idea too! contrasting blue to really make the pics and factoids pop!

    That was entirely his idea.... I was ready to quit ..looked done to me.......he didn't want any blank space on his poster.... so we did the cut out.....the white background was foam board...I intend to reuse it for another project if it survives... the blue color was my choice for the reason you stated... the poster board, foam board and pics cost me less than $3...the time to spend with him doing it....cliche or not.... priceless.

    yall can look into scouting

    he did that last year...didn't like it...doesn't want to do it again this year...we asked him last night in fact..

    Maybe add a sibling in two years

    in some ways, it is sad that it will never happen. Despite the fact that I thought she was early-mid 30s when I first asked her out, the reality is she is going to be 46 next month... I will be 43 in December.... we are both too old for kids... and we know she cannot get pregnant anymore...that has been dealt with.... believe me...she asked if I was sure about no more kids...... My dad was 42 when my youngest brother was born...now I understand why he did not have any energy to play with us... Until 3 years ago, I didn't want any kids.... I will enjoy raising this one with toni...and hope I can have a positive influence on his life...

    after dropping mine off at school

    yeah, my fiancee is a little jealous that I get to drop him off 4 days a week (and since she is off only on Monday, she gets 1 day) because she has to go to work too early. So I spend time each morning with him. I also get him up 30 minutes before she does on Monday...she is not a morning person...... Me, on the other hand, ..I don't like to rush around or be late...and I like the extra time I have with him...getting to know his little funny personality... and in cases like this morning where I overslept (by my standard), I still have plenty of time. We have our routine in the morning already....and he is a very nice kid in the morning... (afternoon, his grandma has fed him full of sugar...not so great)...

    anyway...I just cut grass...need to shower and meet toni at the gym...

    real life.... priceless

    Snakes (Rich )

  • cliff
    cliff

    Lovely posts!

    Brings a tear to my eye - frustrated (=non) grandpa!

  • SnakesInTheTower
    SnakesInTheTower

    and a side comment about not having kids.... I am real lucky to have her.... I don't take her for granted.... I had resigned myself, as I think I have commented on these pages before, to living alone for the rest of my life...

    Despite the fact that we are in our 40s, our health is relatively good...we have bursts of energy and enjoy doing fun things both together and the 8YO.....and other things are great...so we have no complaints other than occasional normal day-to-day get on your nerves kind of things... and so far so good no major issues...

    ..as long as my work picks up soon...lol..

    Snakes (rich )

  • jamiebowers
    jamiebowers

    Snakes, I never had children of my own but helped to raise two stepchildren. It's a delicate balance of role model and nondisciplinarian, but it's so worth it. All kids naturally love their parents, but it's a special reward when a child chooses to love you. Keep up the good work. Unfortunately, you're going to blink, and your stepson will be grown and gone. Enjoy even he rough stuff now, because it will be over before you know it!

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