I noticed that some posters on the physical abuse threads said that they were speaking from experience, so I felt like it might help someone here or someone you know to post this topic, in hopes that if one of you or someone you know is in denial about their abusive situation, these links will educate them about what is actually occurring in their life and how to deal with it, whether they plan to stay or leave. Remember, there is NO place in a loving relationship for abuse. Here's a few links to help you or someone you may know of who's in a living situation with someone they fear: (Also, remember there's a HUGE amount of info online...just type in Abuse or Violence in the Google search window)
http://www.ndvh.org/ (National Domestic Violence Hotline - & for your State)
http://www.silcom.com/~paladin/madv/safetyplan.html (a "Safety Plan" for work & home when dealing with domestic violence and tips on what to do if you're leaving, or if you plan to stay)
http://www.recovery-man.com/abusive/abusive.htm (gives warning signs, effects, personality types, what to DO)
http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/relationships/abuse_p2.html (signs that YOU are being abused and signs that a FRIEND is being abused)
http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/relationships/abuse_p3.html (HOW you can help yourself and where you can get help)
http://www.tipsofallsorts.com/abusiverelationships.html (different types of abuse, how to recognize which types you're dealing with and how best to handle)
Whoever you are....or whoever you know that's in this sort of situation...just remember there's a LOT of supportive people here...willing to listen...and help when and where possible....
(((HUGS)))
Frannie B