I was thinking that it seems like often when we speak of mind control, we only seem to think of something controlling our mind, but we don't seem to think of how our mind controls us. I thought to put it in a diagram it would look something like this:
Controlling entity -----> Your mind -----> You
(Religion etc.) (schema) (your life/behavior)
So, the second connection is often just seen as a given, and we only work on the first part between the organization and our mind. Of course, it would be insane to just cut off your mind, but I think maybe the thing that makes us feel so helpless is thinking that the "control" only comes from one direction. In reality, I think it works both ways on all levels. You only have to look at all the people who have left the JWs on this board to see that this is true. So I think a more accurate model would look something like this:
Controlling entity -----> Your mind -----> You
(Religion etc.) <----- (schema) <----- (your life/behavior)
Now, I put control in quotation marks because obviously nobody as absolute control. However, if we see the whole process and where we fall into the big picture, we will have a better idea of what factors we can tweak in order to affect the dynamic of this whole thing. What this would imply, though, is that you don't cut off any connections - you can't, actually - but rather see precisely how different factors interact with each other and again see how you might indirectly affect change from where you are. Now some people might say "Okay Intro, that's about as clear as mud - what do you actually DO??" That would depend on your specific situation of course, but what I am laying out here is just a different perspective - just the perspective of overall awareness, which is no perspective really, in that things are not colored by a certain set of perception. So often people seem to want to work on one of the three things rather than the relationship between them - reforming the org, changing your mind or behavior - but really the real change happens through the action between them, because none of those things are static entities anyway. Another way of looking at it is that the only thing that does not change is awareness, what happens in awareness might change - so you might say awareness is the one place you can make your home. If you identify with anything other than awareness, (which is really no identification) you're bound to be disappointed at one point or another, because things change.