Hi all!
I'm still a newbie around here... I've been out of jw's for a year now and recently started reading posts on this site. They're sooo helpful to me! I can't beleive what a releif it is to have people on hand that understand what you've gone through - especially when the rest of the world could not understand the 'deprogramming' we have to endure. Can't beleive how much it's changed my life for the better - but it's still a lot to sort through.
Anyhow - my question is for all the ex-jw couples out there....
An issue my husband and I have had...
We were need greaters for many years. During that time, because of our upbringing and environment, we convinced ourselves that sex was (more or less) a distraction from the "important work" we were doing. I had a hard time with it too, as I was taught from the very beginning that sex was oh-so-wrong! (ha!)
Since we've left - we've both gotten to a point where we're feeling more sexual -and that there's nothing wrong! Nope - no Jehovah - no angels watching you.... (can't beleive that ever used to cross my mind!) The PROBLEM is that we're having a very difficult time making the transition as a couple. I still see the elder giving a talk and he still sees the pioneer wife - and we all know.....there's nothing sexy about that!!!!!
Any one else out there experience this? Any stories you could share?
I'm open to advise - comiserating - or stories of your own.
HELP!!!!!!!