Ms. OM and I were both 3rd gen JWs. We completely shunned my gay, DFed, older brother for twenty years. I awakened to TTATT circa 2006. Ms. OM about 3 years later. Kids never took the plunge and we're all successfully faded. We've reconnected with my oldest brother and have patched things up pretty well. Getting much closer to being an ex-ex-JW, although I doubt I'll ever be 100% JW free.