I heard this is a website where you can ask fellow Jehovah's Witnesses questions that websites like JW Friends will not allow you to post because they don't allow you to speak ill of any elder.
My Aunt Cruella de Ville and Uncle Jaundice sent my grandpa (He's got dementia and grandma has cancer) a letter saying their going to force grandma and gramps in to selling the land my grandmother located back in the late 1970s, grandma is very smart and saw the potential for their land, she was very gifted seeing things others did not see. In the 1980s my grandparents went to Oregon to check on their daughter who was pregnant, they were appalled by the living conditions Cruella was living and she was having to work even though she was heavy with child.
All of this started when my Dad ran in to a elder at the grocery store and this elder told my dad that "the reason Cruella and Jaundice are shunning your inlaws is because their apostates and therefore have the right to shun them. This elder also said that he say the copy of the letter of the man who molested my mother and said "Its her word vs his word, the letter said that!" How can it be his word vs her word when this former Secretary confessed his acts of child sex abuse and wrote mom a letter a apology explaining he truly was remorse filled and wanted to beg for forgiveness?" I will attach a copy of the letter of the lawsuit, I called Brother Ray Publisher to explain how evil things have become(Ray Publisher and another two members on this site were totally shocked how rotten they are treating my grandpa and grandma!) and this is why my faith is challenged now. I love God, I love Jesus and nothing will change and this week I told my grandma I was not interested in attending meetings ever again and don't want anything to do with what I believed was the Truth until my Aunt and two Uncles kept messing with grandma and grandpa.
When my Dad saw him at the grocery store and this other elder said crap about my grandparents, my dad told him how that shouldn't be shunning them considering my grandparents helped support them when they filed bankruptcy. They even took my Grandma's car and trashed it until it no longer ran. So how can they badmouth the ones who saved their butt so long ago?
The lawyer's letter is asking for a "Petition to Partition" the property but there are problems we must deal with. When my Elder Uncle built his house on grandma's land, he did it under the ADU or Granny provision. The County authorized 1200 square feet, can you guess how big they built their house? They almost doubled it and I have the plans to prove it because they ripped my mother off, they never paid her for drawing the set of plans that my aunt and uncle ripped Mom off the going rate. Aunt Cruella said "I will put tile in your house and cover the costs up to the fair-value", she never did and after their house strangely passed inspection Aunt Cruella and Uncle Jaundice took down the fake wall covering all the illegal square footage. Is it illegal to double the size of the granny-house and not pay the school taxes and property taxes?
I looked up the County info and can post it for everyone to see, Elder Jaundice was the Kingdom Hall Secretary at the time, his way of making a living was calculating squarefoots of houses and bidding, so he can't lie and say "I did not know I was building my house over 2200 square feet. The best part is now, when they both reported the cost of building improvements they swore on the affidavit that they only spent $130k, he laughed at how stupid the county and tax accessor were because they spent over $300k and laughed their taxes would only be $1800 per year instead of $450,000 * .01 or $4500 dollars per year.
When Mom finished with the plans Aunt Cruella showed up for four hours off and on to start trying to help do one of the bathrooms, she did not pay for the tile, did not finish the upstairs or downstairs and soon found a reason to shun us. There's a saying "If you want people to avoid you or shun you, lend them money and that's exactly how this went down. When we asked her to do what she promised, she made up every excuse and said "I am not going to do it, so live with it!" The hatred starting brewing because Aunt Cruella was not going to finish and so my Dad asked her to pay fair-market value for the plans Mom designed and both Jaundice and Cruella refused to help! They said, "'we are not going to pay you and there's nothing you can do about this!" Dad went on Google to tell everyone how they treated my Mother and to date Aunt Cruella and Jaundice have done nothing to compensation Mom.
The Letter sent by their attorney stated " say's "Your are not to talk with my clients, if you want to talk you are to do it through me!' My grandma had made a deal with my Jehovah Witness Aunt Cruella's husband (Jaundice) of the local Kingdom Hall and now he's become the PO or COBE since 2007. How can I get them to pay for all the years my Dad did all the yard work while he sat back on got his weight up to 300lbs along with his fat turkey chin? How can we get the money back they stole from my mother by not paying for any of the plans. Mom told Aunt Cruella and Uncle Jaundice their plans were illegal and they were evading taxes by not paying the County and School fees on their granny house!
Aunt Cruella has pretended to know the Law, she has ignored any communication between my Mom who is 1/3 owner and shuns her! She has been trying to punish Mom by bringing out the former Secretatry Elder Pedophile, he's the man who wrote a apology for my mother after abusing her repeatedly when she was 4-7 years old. The Judicial Committee made Mother face her pedophile abuser and this Pedophile only lost his position, the Watchtower did not remove him, just his position.
How can we take this before a court since Aunt Cruella and Uncle PO Jaundice refuse to communicate about price, terms and fix the illegal house and back taxes they owe the property. Uncle Jaundice got mad at my Dad for telling the Elder who accused my spiritual grandma and grandpa of apostasy and said A+J are shunning them for that, that blew Dad's temper and he said the following statements to this wicked elder who was accused by several family female friends of trying to force himself on my parents friends. One died recently and the other friend who told us the same story said that there were eight women that came forward. I am not a genius but if this sister's story is correct, the Organization knew about a man-Elder that has the facial features of a gopher or beaver (weird face with gopher yellow tarter-ed bucket teeth!). This same elder has a reputation for lying about our fellow friends, I was on the phone with a good former elder that visits this site. Yellow-Buck tooth Elder lied about my friend and soon our fellow friend here called him and demanded he explain why Buck-Teeth Elder was lying about him and making false charges to to important people.
How do my parents deal with this situation, should they call the County, demand the county and tax agencies to review all the illegal improvements and perjured states "Under the Penalty of Prosecution, I swear I only put $130k in improvements (Not the $330k big mouth Elder said he really put in!). If the aunt and uncle refuse to communicate how are we suppose to buy them out or sell, they shun my grandma with cancer, shun grandpa with dementia telling people grandpa is faking his dementia.. Grandpa's life is failing quickly and grandma being so classy is afraid to do anything because she does not want any reproach on Jehovah's name. Can you please help counsel my parents, should we call Bethel about the lies and tax fraud? They are stressed out and not sure what to do because other JW's stonewall them since she told on my uncle.
Thank you for taking time to consider the plight of my parents, I thought we were not suppose to take people to court and how can my parents negiotate if they won't speak to us. And funny thing, the pedophile who molested mom continues to stalk her online even though he apologized and begged for forgiveness is helping pull the strings behind the scene to punish mom for obeying the admonition to keep the congregation clean, I thought we had a clean brotherhood and back in 2007 that's when my faith fell off a cliff and decided not to get baptized!