Ok, quick run down of my situation.
1. I am not religious. My now-fiance was raised JW but left the religion about 10 years ago.
2. We started dating last March, I got pregnant within two weeks. He told me that he would only go back to the religion if "something really big happened" (which I read as "never").
3. Our baby was born this past December, he had severe birth issues, almost died, etc. He decided that he was going to go back to the religion.
4. That is fine with me, until he decides that we're not having sex until we get married (supposedly June 30, 2012).
It is now about a year to our supposed wedding, and I am filled with many, many doubts. I love any and all holidays for the food/family aspect, whereas he will kind of cooperate but it's always a struggle. If our son needs a blood transfusion, I will do so without hesitation. I have absolutely NO intention of coverting to JW, however I do attend meetings with him occasionally, and let him take our son to meetings sometimes as well (as a sign of support). His congregation and family seem to like me enough, but I'm curious how/if that'll change if and when we get married.
So basically..... does anyone have any advice? Do you think that we can we make it work? Is anyone else in a similar situation?
The fact that we have a kid throws a huge monkey wrench into the whole thing....my parents are still together and I always wanted that kind of stable home life for any children I may have :(
I love my fiance, but I have a lot of doubts as to if we'll make it for the long haul :(