Witnesses to Abuse (New Hampshire JW Abuse Story)

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  • UnDisfellowshipped
    UnDisfellowshipped

    http://www.1590.com/Stories/0,1413,222~23678~1492331,00.html

    Article Published: Thursday, July 03, 2003 - 8:38:27 AM EST

    Witnesses to abuse

    A Superior Court ruling in late June allows elders to protect confessions of sexual abuse made to them by Jehovah's Witnesses. They won't have to report admissions of abuse to state authorities. That has dangerous implications for victims, who say their complaints have been routinely ignored by elders.

    In this case, a "confession" was made before a panel of Wilton elders, not in the privacy of a one-to-one meeting. The finding in Hillsborough County Superior Court that elders serve as "ordained ministers" protected from revealing confidences might be upheld by law, but it hurts victims past and future.

    The suit links to an increasing number of lawsuits from church members. The Wilton victims' mother told church elders about abuse from their father/stepfather, since jailed. She was told to keep quiet, pray more and strive to be a better wife. Her daughters, who filed the suit, are now grown and plan to appeal to the state Supreme Court.

    Similar reports abound of elders covering up incidents, effectively allowing suspected molesters to continue their abuse for years. In Keene in 1987, members were threatened with excommunication and eternal damnation if they pursued a complaint about a 10-year-long abuse situation. Alleged molesters are also allowed to go door to door, in the company of a second church member, once elders deem them rehabilitated.

    Looking to Catholic tragedies, one might have expected the court to protect the children. But this ruling will encourage elders to keep hushing up victims and shielding offenders.

    One hopes the Supreme Court finds a better resolution. The lower court's decision will intimidate other victims. The message is clear: Silence is now golden.

  • avengers
    avengers

    I'm getting sick to my stomach reading this.

    Children have become the outlaw. Jehovah doesn't protect them, the courts don't.

    Who does?

  • rainbow2003
    rainbow2003

    Flyers and news releases help to do so. So does exposure on CBS and the like.

    By the way, I believe it correct that New Hampshire's Supreme Court justices made a similar past ruling in the Brian Reece (spelling) case and it has come out that most of the SC justices in NH are Catholic and so not wont to speak much about pedophilia in churches.

  • little witch
    little witch

    You are right, Avengers, while this is a disgusting ruling, as long as it is OUT THERE,

    people can be educated in advance of a JW visit. All the more reason to reject the teachings of the borg.

    Thanks for posting this, and we should all keep this kind of thing public as much as possible. When dubs come knocking at your door, politly share this information, you might be suprised how many don't have a clue, living in their vaccuum.

  • kgfreeperson
    kgfreeperson

    This is unspeakably depressing.

  • needs_lots
    needs_lots

    I think we need to work on the process of the jw's. According to their own books all cases must be reported to bethel. As jw's, if they go to the elders about a problem it is not in secret. THey do not believe in confessions. We all understood it is a process. From publisher to elder to bethel. WE ALL KNOW THAT. The publisher is seeking assisstance from the elder not absolution,like in the catholic church. THere is a very big difference. We need to make the judge very clear on this point. There are no secrets amoungst elders that don't get told to bethel. This is a fact. THats were the data base of 25,000 abusers comes from. THe catholics don't have this because everything that is said in confessionals stays with them. We need to prove to the judge that the jw's have a policy and a process that is not ment to be secret.

    vic

  • Catren
    Catren

    I agree, kgfreeperson, this is unspeakably depressing. We just can't seem to get out of the dark ages. However, we must not let setbacks stop us. We have to get up, brush ourselves off and forge ahead! Everyone, hang in there.

  • titomunoz
    titomunoz

    Recent events leading to the discovering of pedophiles in religious organizations has caused them to reassess their policy on handling alleged cases of pedophilia. The legal and financial ramifications seem to be of major concern to all involved parties for all the obvious and not so obvious reasons. This year the allegations brought forth against Catholic priests has been publicized in the media and a great quantity of victims has come forth as having suffered sexual abuse by priests. The allegations are not limited to only catholic priests. Individuals have come forth with similar cases of sexual abuse in the hands of incestuous individuals and pedophiles within the Jehovah’s Witnesses organization. The matter of handling these allegations put forth by the media has been their main concern. American catholic archbishops and priests have taken a proactive stand to correct those men involved in these immoral and in most instances, illegal sexual discrepancies. The frustration between those accused and alleged victims is tantamount to a divorced couple attempting to distribute their community property. It is questionable whether the intent is to settle the issue on a financial basis and monetary awards in an effort to dismiss cases as speedily and quietly as possible. Perhaps focus can be directed at what we can learn from the scriptures on how to deal with cases such as these. The principles outlined in the scriptures are a clear indication of how to treat cases of sexual abuse. Clearly we can see the scriptures give clear indications to treat severely and punishment for those guilty of such crimes. The issue is on how the bible gives weight to the victims and little room for the alleged perpetrator. Society will not count the allegation of one child to dismiss the case against an adult pedophile based on the only eyewitness account of the victim. The scriptures nonetheless clearly indicate that Jehovah views the perpetrator as guilty of his actions. Consider please the account found at Deuteronomy 22:23-27,“In case there happened to be a virgin girl engaged to a man, and a man actually found her in the city and lay down with her, 24 YOU must also bring them both out to the gate of that city and pelt them with stones, and they must die, the girl for the reason that she did not scream in the city, and the man for the reason that he humiliated the wife of his fellowman. So you must clear away what is evil from your midst.25 “If, however, it is in the field that the man found the girl who was engaged, and the man grabbed hold of her and lay down with her, the man who lay down with her must also die by himself, 26 and to the girl you must do nothing. The girl has no sin deserving of death, because just as when a man rises up against his fellowman and indeed murders him, even a soul, so it is with this case. 27 For it was in the field that he found her. The girl who was engaged screamed, but there was no one to rescue her. Clearly Jehovah advocates in favor of the virgin who has been victimized by the rapist even though no one heard her scream. He himself credits her screaming. Truly if she did not scream it was out of fear of losing her life because since she is out of ear shot, no one could come to her rescue. Jehovah lovingly has claimed that he, even though no one else did, hear her, he serves as the second witness in her favor. Who therefore, can argue against him? This is not limited to only rapists, we can apply the same principle to young men, women, and children in the hands of pedophiles. We need to also consider the amount of witnesses required to convict these alleged perpetrators. In the Jehovah’s Witnesses religion, unless you have two or more witnesses, the allegations are not usually taken before a judicial committee. Their interpretation and application of Deuteronomy 19:15 is correct when applied to several types of cases and specific allegations. When allegations of another sort come to light the rule does not apply. The admonition an Deuteronomy 13:6-11 gives a clear indication of how Jehovah did not always require two or more witnesses concerning the establishment of quilt. He shows a reasonableness found only in his mercy to those who have been victimized. What this means is that he gives weight to the testimony of only the victim who has seen the wrong or been victimized by another. It reads, “In case your brother, the son of your mother, or your son or your daughter or your cherished wife or your companion who is like your own soul, should try to allure you in secrecy, saying, ‘Let us go and serve other gods,’ whom you have not known, neither you nor your forefathers, 7 some of the gods of the peoples who are all around YOU, the ones near you or those far away from you, from one end of the land to the other end of the land, 8 you must not accede to his wish or listen to him, nor should your eye feel sorry for him, nor must you feel compassion, nor cover him [protectively]; 9 but you should kill him without fail., and the hand of all the people afterward. 10 And you must stone Your hand first of all should come upon him to put him to death him with stones, and he must die, because he has sought to turn you away from Jehovah your God, who has brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of slaves. 11 Then all Israel will hear and become afraid, and they will not do anything like this bad thing again in your midst. This is a clear indication of his loving kindness extended to those who are victimized. Does this give room for abuse of some bringing forth false accusations? I believe not. The alleged perpetrator can bring forth those to refute the allegations by providing an alibi and other witnesses to prove whether or not the possibility of such pedophilia or sexual abuse could have occurred. Organized religion would do well in establishing a biblical answer in handling these cases. Jehovah’s Witnesses conveniently fail to cite these scriptures and concentrate on Deuteronomy 19:15. What is extraordinary is that the American legal system does give credence to one sole victim’s voice and has gone to court to establish innocence or guilt in such allegations. Perhaps they know more of Jehovah’s mercy and religion can learn from them. Rather than use the bible for guidance and direction it can be said they, religious organizations who harbor criminals, use it like a light bulb, as a flotation device instead of for illumination. “Confidentiality” is a guise to keep facts of criminal activity and immorality hidden from others or known only to oneself or to a few select congregation members from leaking out to newly admitted members and of course hidden from the proper legal activities. When any investigative unit is permitted to operate as the Watchtower Society instructs judicial committees, making decisions that affect people’s lives and reputations, it will sooner or later abuse this power as we have seen over several years. "Pay Attention to Yourselves and to All the Flock" page 105 clearly explains: Confidentiality Do not discuss private or judicial matters with members of your family, including your wife, or with others who are not involved. (w714/1 pp. 222-4) Think before you speak. Be extremely careful that you do not inadvertently disclose private information when speaking on the telephone while others are listening in or when people are nearby where they could possibly hear the conversation. At times, complicated judicial cases may necessitate consultation with an experienced mature elder in another congregation or with the circuit overseer. Generally, the pertinent details should be discussed, but names should not be used. However, when the circuit overseer is the elder consulted or when circumstances require that you contact the Society, use of names may be necessary. (w87 9/1pp. 12-15; km 9/77 p. 6) Be careful to maintain confidentiality. (Prov. 11:13; 15:22)

  • rainbow2003
  • mizpah
    mizpah

    It seems that "confidentiality" applies to elders and the Watchtower Society when it is convenient for their purposes. You may recall that a few years ago the Watchtower said that agreements of "confidentiality" would not apply to a Jehovah's Witness who, for example, worked in the medical or legal professions and found out that another Witness had taken a blood transfusion or had become pregnant outside of marriage. Then, it was the "duty" of that Witness to report such to the elders.

    This is the type of double standards that permeate the Watchtower Society. While the average JW may dismiss this as part of the "theocratic warfare" waged against the world, the average person can see the dishonesty and lack of ethics that are involved.

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