Hey Farkel,
11. On October 26, 2002, while lying in bed with xxxxx, she hugged me and said, "mom, you don't know how much I miss you." I asked what she meant. She told me she wanted to move home so I could take care of her. She said that she and her sisters had had a discussion the week before in regard to her wanting to live with me still. She said they had agreed that they would speak with the Petitioner and suggest that (the two older sisters) stay with their father while letting xxxxxx return to live with me. She told me that she didn't have anyone to really take care of her. The older girls were taking care of themselves and she felt left out. She said she sleeps with (the ex-husband) due to not having a room of her own and is embarrassed her friends will find out.
This is soooooo inappropriate. This young girl has other sisters - even if they ALL have to stay in same bedroom. The couch is a better option - for father or daughter, than daughter shamefully sleeping in the same bed as her father.If the girl is embarrassed by the fact - it should be stopped. It doesn't matter if the father is molesting her or not......it is an embarrassing situation for the daughter and totally inappropriate behavior. I was under the impression that a parent couldn't even have custody of a child unless there was a bedroom for that child - and children of different sexes couldn't share a bedroom. This is a GROWN MAN SLEEPING WITH HIS DAUGHTER WHO'S EMBARRASSED HER FRIENDS WILL FIND OUT! And she has NO bedroom of her own.....just sharing her father's bed.This is a perfectly horrible example of what shunning, the teaching that jw's are True Christians, the rest of the world is evil, all others are going to be killed by Jehovah, Ok To Lie For God........just crappy.Going to forward this on to some others in case they haven't read it. Touching, in a nightmarish shorta way.waiting