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GolfWhat Is The Real Truth Behind Disfellowshipping?


The many posts about disfellowshipping prompted to throw in my 2 cents. What is the real truth behind disfellowshipping?

My present thinking is this, over the years, JW's have been indoctrinated to avoid 'independent' thinking. Why? Is it because the truth would eventually be known as to what really goes on behind closed doors? With all the news (negative) coming in from different sources about many topics, there is a stench smell in the WTBTS.

Is the WTBTS a communist front? I ask this question because when organizations do the thinking for you, it's communism. If you do not follow party rules, your history!

No, Herman Zweigart and the hundreds of thousands that have been disfellowshipped are not alone, why?

I would appreciate your thoughts.

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metatronRe: What Is The Real Truth Behind Disfellowshipping?

  I would say that the current threat of disfellowshipping critics and disbelievers within the organization is exposing just

 how intellectually bankrupt the Watchtower is.  They can't defend their doctrines or practises with any degree of depth

 so totalitarian control is their goal.  At some point, they must hit bottom while trying to dumb down the organization.

 If you like the Communist analogy ( I do), then they will encounter the same roadblocks as the Soviets did :

 particularily the emergence of childlike Witnesses who need to be treated as if feeble minded and utterly dependent.

 The phrase "too stupid to live" comes to mind.

 

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GolfRe: What Is The Real Truth Behind Disfellowshipping?

 

 

Thanks Metatron. Total submission to any organization prevents one from expressing 'free' will. It's the weak and feeble minded persons who are willing to submit to such control. They give away their 'freedoms' at any and all costs.

Positive thinking persons, be it for the good or evil, will not submit to outside control. These people will sacrifice their lives and freedoms to be their own person.  

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SnapdragonRe: What Is The Real Truth Behind Disfellowshipping?

It think your last point is quite valid, Guest.

Look around this forum.  I'd say on whole, the people who were DF'd, Removed etc, are the strong willed ones.  We've all been described by the elders as "spiritually stagnant, strong willed, unwilling to follow (my favorite word) guidance".  I bet money that if we could compare all our cards the elders kept on us, we'd see a trend.

I've often thought about the real truth behind disfellowshipping.  It has TORN my family to shreds.  Some people follow the rules more diligently then others, in my family.  My grandparents have been unable to completely toss aside their daughter (my mom), while her own sisters act with selfless love for the Jehovah, and shun her.  If they were to see the error of their ways now, think of how destroyed the past 15 years would be for them. 

It is like a lot of us here, following the way whole heartedly, only to be forced to see the falsities we were living for so long.  Remember how painful that truth was/is?  Disfellowshipping remains because to deny the validity of it now underminds a major stone in the WTBTS foundation.

             ~Snapdragon

 

And yes, communism is a great analogy.  I'd never thought of it that way.  The only difference being that communists could force an entire nation to become part of the collective.  But Witnesses practice in a freedom-of-religious-choice country; so you join by free will, but you end up getting stuck, by free will, too.
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GolfRe: What Is The Real Truth Behind Disfellowshipping?

 

 

Snapdragon, communism has many subtlies. To make in work in North America, it can't be open, because freedom loving people will not tolerate their freedoms to be taken away from them. Take the case of guns. Gun owners do not want to giveup  this right to own a gun. But who wants it and why? Communism in North America has to be done 'gradually' and in an unsuspecting manner. 

Religion has deprived us our sovereign rights and what methods do they use? I'll let you answer that question.

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ezekiel3Re: What Is The Real Truth Behind Disfellowshipping?

As I was reading this thread I was thinking "Jesus never disfellowshipped anyone." And then  Oh, yeah, it was Paul who spoke wrote all the DFing scriptures (not that I believe they apply to JW style DF policy).

Then I realized an interesting reality, when JWs are recruiting it is about Jesus: loving, allowing critical questions, ignoring "bad behavior" as long as the student is making "progress."

After a person gets baptized JWs switch to Paul: procedure, authoritarian, men first, pharisees and...disfellowshipping.

The old bait and switch?
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ErichRe: What Is The Real Truth Behind Disfellowshipping?

Disfellowshipping yes/no ?

A very difficult question. Certainly every type of social relationship  (groups, clans, organizations, firms, states or countries...) in the world KNOWS the disassociation or disfellowshipping in any manner. A governed state e.g. throws the malefactors or lawbreakers into jail after court-decision. Its a kind of "disassociation" too.

Jesus Christ said: "If he (the sinner) does not listen even to the congregation, let him be to you just as a man of the nations and as a tax collector". What he meant, was a type of non-formal disfellowshipping.

The main problem is IMO as follows: There is an need for ABSOLUTE transparency in all things. If parts of members get the feeling of concealment, suspicion or conspiration in a congregation, then will occur distrust. If all such problems were discussed open for public, and transparently, as it is usual in a brotherhood (look at your own family!) no troubles would emerge.

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jwbotRe: What Is The Real Truth Behind Disfellowshipping?

Communism is a type of economy.

Just thought I would clear that misconception up...
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RatboyRe: What Is The Real Truth Behind Disfellowshipping?

Communism is a type of economy.

Just thought I would clear that misconception up...
I was thinking the same.  Communism has nothing to do with totalitarianism.
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SnapdragonRe: What Is The Real Truth Behind Disfellowshipping?

Good point Ezekiel.  I had often thought of it that way, only never put it into words.  Remember how much they down play the "shunning" aspect, when questioned about it during studies?  I'd sit there and bite my tongue, thinking about my family all the while.  Makes my hairs rise!

And thanks for the clarification there, Bot and Rat.  I was using "communism" in the sense that the average lay person does, though.  No offense intended.

 

       ~Snap
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zen nudist  Re: What Is The Real Truth Behind Disfellowshipping?

I suspect while we are INdoctrinated we find nothing much wrong with the concept of the DF, after all, we all grow up in countries which use methods of jailing and execution and as JWs we considered ourselves members of a higher government which accoring to the mosaic laws was pretty brutal on all its citizens, consider Deut 21:18 -- if you cannot brainwash your children, [proverbs adds after beating them], then bring them to the elders and have them stoned to death.

over course while we were brainwashed this made some sort of sense as of course Jehovah was behind it all allowing it to happen as he saw fit and who were we to question his wisdom?

but as the scales of irrational trust dropped and our realization that humans are liars by nature and con artists abound and we have likely been just as if not more so duped then those who we considered duped [everyone but us of course, after all how could we be duped, right?]  we feel that what seemed fair to us before now is being used against us in a most unfair way....

but it really is no different from all the other con artists and thieves we deal with as governments or religions with strict values and views.

many religions are not as brutal as JWs, but some are far more so...but one of the things we admired about JWs when we were conned was that they matched the brutatlity of the bible to some extent, no?
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kilroy2Re: What Is The Real Truth Behind Disfellowshipping?

 

communism is a form of economy? in one def. of the word, but as far as it was being used, he ment like that of the former ussr. or china. where it is a government of total control, of the economy and political system, ect, so he used the term correct to make the point he was trying to make, It becomes a one party political structure, Communism = control over every aspect of ones life, and it is a very good analogy of a system of religion or any other org. that trys to exhert total cortrol over its people..
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GolfRe: What Is The Real Truth Behind Disfellowshipping?

 

 

 

Thanks Kilroy2. I remember the word 'terrific' at one time used to mean 'terrifying' now it's used as something being great, etc.

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Undaunted DannyRe: What Is The Real Truth Behind Disfellowshipping?
 Watchtower corporate president Nathan Knorr's "final solution" to squelch critics,dissidents and whistleblowers.
 
It's UNscriptural and why: 
     
    IS BLOOD THICKER THAN DOGMA? Not in the cult cocoon. Family is held hostage,in the Watchtower's "no brainer container".
   
      The WT$. twisted take on the 'disfellowshipping chapter'..1 Corn. 5. Here we have St. Paul's adroit adjudication.,,,,"Let him be as a man of the nations, i.e. a Gentile. or as a tax collector i.e. IRS agent.
    Back then these were people who were disliked, but not ostracized. [especially, if they were your own blood kin.] He was Dfed for only 90 days in this first case of a disfellowshipping precedent.

    ....Later in the New testament St.John elaborates further on Christian excommunication at ;[2 John 1
11Anyone who welcomes him shares in his wicked work"] we have St. John's condemnation of who?THE ANTICHRIST to come. NOT A WAYWARD TEENAGER smoking cigarettes. John is not elaborating here on the 90 day shunning protocol of Paul he is writing about the abominable 'antichrist'.
    
   What is the watchtower's motive for family wrecking?

 The WT$ leaders are;"control freaks with a mean streak".They are also blinded to reality insulated in their Ivory tower.

  Back in 1989 I calculated that as the world turns,4.4 men women and children were disfellowshipped per hour for that year.The WT$ asserts that all were expelled @ "the direction of the Holy spirit".This is utter blasphemy.

 
   How JW cult leaders hook into your guilt and shame:
 
 They exploit the Scripture at Prov. 28:13: "He that is covering over his transgression will not succeed, but he that is confessing it will be shown mercy". They dupe you into 'spilling your guts' about intimate details of your private life so they can use it against you if you try to leave.
 
     This is standard operating procedure for all high control cults. This sleaze has a name it's called the:"Cult of confession".
      

The Cult of Confession [spilling your guts]

Serious sins (as defined by the organization) are to be confessed immediately. The members are to be reported if found walking contrary to the rules.

There is often a tendency to derive pleasure from self-degradation through confession.
 
    This occurs when all must confess their sins before each other regularly,(e.g.masturbation,aka "self-abuse") creating an intense kind of "oneness" within the group. It also allows leaders from within to exercise authority over the weaker ones, using their "sins" as a whip to lead them on.
 
 
 

These 'flunky','Ghouls for GOD '.Jehovah witness church elders create your disastrously dysfunctional problem in the FIRST PLACE,with their politics and cliques.Disfellowship,you for the problems that they instigated.

    Then.....come up from behind and like 'ghouls,'analyze till, their paralyzed' and do a "postmortem" as to why on earth you had a  shipwreck of your faith? [Why,we only tried to help you]

     So,sometimes in despair you stumble into an odyssey a.k.a. the, "BOMB".....of self destructive behavior.Leaving the'truth' and going to the dogs is not a self-fulfilling prophecy.

The bastards are truly wolves in sheep's clothing.(Matthew 7:15).Your isolated and your family is now out of the picture,to render you support,because of the WT$'s satanic divide and conquer family wrecking.

This is their pure demonic, psychopath,play book.The demons want to get back at humanity,and crave anything carnal ( especially wrecking familys,because God "wrecked" their family's at the great flood ) and harmful,to us because they know they are doomed and want to take as many, as the chosen with them.  

   That's why the Watchtower has an evil draconian UNscriptural family wrecking shunning ritual.It's a family wrecking doctrine of demons from the get-go.

Final note;to the Watchtower's 'final solution'.To quote Gary Buss."all it would take for the Watchtower to turn overnight into just another religion (and disarm dissidents like myself) would be to repeal their evil shunning protocol.

 
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GolfRe: What Is The Real Truth Behind Disfellowshipping?

 

 

 

Dan, I always enjoy reading your comments especially when humor is injected, a touch of class!

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Undaunted DannyRe: What Is The Real Truth Behind Disfellowshipping?

Thanks for the booster Golf.

""He was Dfed for only 90 days in this first case of a disfellowshipping precedent"".

 The primary concern of the JW Elders when deliberating their decisions to DF is to stonewall a potential secular civil lawsuit for shunning.

God's will has got nothing to do with it.To dupe you they will cite the first Dfing precedent of a limited 90 days.They will go on to console the victim that,"the time duration of the DFing is all up to you".We are not 'jailers' when your 'repentance is shown' we will be eager to reinstate you.

This is a willful LIE!

Query to board participants:HAVE YOU EVER HEARD OF ANYONE BEING REINSTATED IN 3 MONTHS????

If so,were they politically connected and what were the circumstances?
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A PaduanRe: What Is The Real Truth Behind Disfellowshipping?

What Is The Real Truth Behind Disfellowshipping?

Arrogance, and in sacrifice.

What man of you, having a hundred sheep, if he has lost one of them, does not leave the ninety-nine in the wilderness, and go after the one which is lost, until he finds it?

Answer   -  jws choose who should be sacrificed 'for the good of the ninety-nine', and they actually believe it.

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Golf Re: What Is The Real Truth Behind Disfellowshipping?

 

Yes Dan, I brought this to the attention of the GB in my last letter. I even quoted from their publication about this man been reinstated shortly thereafter. I also quoted 2Cor.2:6, "This rebuke given by the MAJORITY is sufficent for such a man, so that...you should kindly forgive and comfort him..." It was the 'majority' of the congregation that expelled him and it was the majority that would reinstate him!

What about the incident with Paul & King Agrippa at Acts chapter twenty-six? I mean, what did King Agrippa know about "doing works that befit repentance?" Paul was speaking to an unbeliever not to a body of fellow Christians about the criteria of reinstating a disfellowshipped person! What the hell did King Agrippa know about disfellowshipping?

The Society has used this scripture as a measuring stick to reinstate disfellowshiped persons, you'll never find what Paul said to Agrippa to the Christian congregations.

My last letter was over 20 pages in length and I never got an answer, even a comforting word. I got expelled for what an elder thought about me. In other words, a mind reading elder knew me better than I know myself. The end result from his personal viewpoint sent lights flashing in my head. The game was over for me. It was a blessing in disguise.

My question in asking is, is there an evil controlling element behind this policy? How many friends got expelled for no scriptural reasons whatsoever? OK, enough air talk.

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jwbotRe: What Is The Real Truth Behind Disfellowshipping?

Sorry guys, there was no other definition of communism. It is a type of economy, even when it was implimented in USSR and China. Just like capitalism is a form of economy here. You are thinking or totaltarianism and dictatorship, which coupled with communism, it is total control. There was no "former" definition, but rather, the word itself has just gotten negative connotation even though it quite possibly is a fine method of economy but not particularly my cup of tea.

It is just a pet peave of mine when people do not understand what the differences between methods of economy and methods of government.
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GolfRe: What Is The Real Truth Behind Disfellowshipping?

JWbot, did you ever read, "The 10 planks of the Communist Manifesto (1848) by Karl Marx?"

Http://www-self.USC.edu/~tannenba/history.htm  I hope this cite works.

communism 1."a philosophy or system, derived from Marxism, advocating state owbership of land and property, postulating class conflict,... 2 "a political, social and economic system in which the state, governed by an 'elite' party, controls production, labor and distribution, and, largely, the social and cultural life and thought of the people: Communism is expressed in various movements,, but Russian sovietism is often referred to as a fair sample. In Communism ownership and control of everything would be in the hands of a 'small' group presumably representing the common people (Emory S. Borgarddus)

Communism and Socialism are systems of social organization under which the means of production and distribution of goods are transferred from private hands to the government. The classic difference between the two systems lies in the different means they take to establish themselves: communism emphasizes the impracticability of replacing the existing social order by any means other than armed force or outside intervention; the advocates of socialism seek to establish it by peaceful means, through legislation rather than force.The World Book Dictionary.

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