Billygoat,
Reading your touching post really bought to mind the infamous scripture in 2 Tim 3:3 that the WTS gleefully applies to everybody but themselves, ‘No natural affection’, NWT, ‘no normal human affections’, Phillips.
The WTS has clearly juxtaposed themselves between the natural affection a father has for his daughter. He obviously loves your dearly Billygoat and feels that he is helping you by taking this action, that actually defies true love. It must be very hard for him as well.
The reality is that if the WTS said it was permissible for him to show you the love and affection you desire, he would show it warmly. They control his affections. He is probably struggling hard himself to understand what has happened to his family and battling the cognitive-dissonace that most JW’s have to grapple with.
Be patient, Billygoat, time is a great healer and is also camping around the theology of the WTS, which it has laid siege to, and which the WTS will not survive.
Kindest regards -- HS