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Hortensia Re: I think I just need to tell the story to someone who will get it?

dear aimless, you need to find a good therapist and spend some time talking about the whole experience. It will help you to have a different perspective. I felt exactly the same way you did - I tried very hard, but was never good enough. That is so destructive - it poisons your life until you can put it in perspective and learn some different ways of being. I also lack social skills, but I try anyway. This forum has been very helpful to me - it's good to be able to speak out to people who know what you mean. You might go through more unpleasant feelings besides grief, such as anger, but in the end you will be happy and have a better life than if you stayed JW.
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Hortensia	Re: I think I just need to tell the story to someone who will get it?
	dear aimless, you need to find a good therapist and spend some time talking about the whole experience. It will help you to have a different perspective. I felt exactly the same way you did - I tried very hard, but was never good enough. That is so destructive - it poisons your life until you can put it in perspective and learn some different ways of being. I also lack social skills, but I try anyway. This forum has been very helpful to me - it's good to be able to speak out to people who know what you mean. You might go through more unpleasant feelings besides grief, such as anger, but in the end you will be happy and have a better life than if you stayed JW.
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