(((Milligal)))
Hang in there girl. It's tough and there's no getting away from the frustration. Just try and ignore it, even though that's so much easier said than done.
We have the opposite problem - total silence from my in-laws; they don't even mention us to the other members of the family (non-JWs who think they're crazy for treating us in such a disgusting way). So it's like we don't exist. Occasionally, Besty's mother will send a card addressed to the boys - she sent us a postcard once after we'd moved to the US.
It hurts like hell but it's more their loss than ours - they are missing out on the best years of our children's lives - if they ever 'wake up' I know they will be devastated when they realise what they missed out by choice.
You have to remember (I keep having to remind myself) that at the end of the day they are victims.
The best advice is to live the fullest, happiest life you can without letting them wind you up.
Sam
Hang in there girl. It's tough and there's no getting away from the frustration. Just try and ignore it, even though that's so much easier said than done.
We have the opposite problem - total silence from my in-laws; they don't even mention us to the other members of the family (non-JWs who think they're crazy for treating us in such a disgusting way). So it's like we don't exist. Occasionally, Besty's mother will send a card addressed to the boys - she sent us a postcard once after we'd moved to the US.
It hurts like hell but it's more their loss than ours - they are missing out on the best years of our children's lives - if they ever 'wake up' I know they will be devastated when they realise what they missed out by choice.
You have to remember (I keep having to remind myself) that at the end of the day they are victims.
The best advice is to live the fullest, happiest life you can without letting them wind you up.
Sam