Myababe, I've all my family save one or two still witnoids. I've simply made new friends, friends that are closer to me than family could ever be. So they have faded well into the background, so far back, I don't know which of any of them are still alive, where they live or anything else about them. My life is full with community activities, intellectual, spiritual and social stimulation and satisfaction that I am adding, ever so slightly to the advancement of civilization.
I wish you the best.
carmel