They are obliged to meet you and invite to a judicial committee meeting, if you refuse to attend then they can d/f anyway - but tell you before the announcement.
However, If it were deemed that you had disassociated from the Org. By saying that you are no longer Witnesses, or seen to vote or perhaps have Christmas decorations evident, then they can simply announce that you are "No longer Witessess" and effect is the same.
Your story reminds me of a girl who attended our Hall when she was d/f'd . She was pregnant and had the baby during the time . She protested her repentance all the time and was duly reinstated . We never saw at the Hall after that . Her family were close knit and she needed reinstatement to be able talk to her Mum again . I'll bet she would say the same things as you do..Welcome to the board..