i'd respectfully decline to meet till sept after the wedding.
Perhaps I wasn't clear; the judicial meeting will be held this wednesday evening whether I attend or not.Why do either one? Df'ing is not your choice and your family will see it that way.........da'ing is your choice and they will see it that way too.
Actually, I think my family realizes that my choice is not to be a JW. Df'ing puts them in a more awkward position mentally, I believe. "True, he was da'd, but he had really long before ceased to be a JW" is easier for them to rationalize than "He's df'd".